"Decard" netizen "Aunt Ninth Aunt Who Loves Money" posted a post on the mood version "If it doesn't work, don't have first aid, it's life whether you can live or not. 》, the content is about the feeling of a netizen who was sent to hospital for emergency treatment due to hypotension caused by kidney washing. It is described here:
Grandma sat in the living room after she came back and was silent for a while. After being silent for a long time, she suddenly stood up and said she wanted to ask for the Bodhisattva and the blessings of her ancestors. She stayed in the hospital corridor for nine hours, and couldn't leave, so she took a shower and went to bed first. She said, "Your grandpa is not awake yet, why should you go down?" "He is very young. If you wake up and yell, the first thing you must find me first." "He is there, and everyone is very scared." "I go to the divination cup and say it will be fine."
{99 9}A netizen mentioned in his article that it is not good to have a relationship with grandma. "I have a small quarrel every two days, a big quarrel every three days, and occasionally I will fight." A netizen once asked grandma: "Do you love me?" Did grandma agree at that time. But after Dao was really hospitalized, grandma was alone in the living room, her eyes waving in her sockets.
She sounded and said calmly about the past, like marrying him to him at the age of 21. He has been 60 years old and has five children. He didn't have much money that year. Then he was a "little girl" and he also took her to a movie for the first time...and so on, it was all the little things in life.
There was no money before, and He didn't spend much money. He saved a lot of money. He paid for his work. All the money paid for his grandma...
When he said this, his grandma choked and said, "He has suffered a lot, so it's okay if it really doesn't work. Let him leave and don't go to first aid. That pressure on his chest and bones will really break. It hurts too much. He is very afraid of pain." "To be honest, grandpa is really considerate of this. "It's so hard, don't put it on him anymore. Whether you can live or not is life."
Finally, this netizen wrote: "Do you love me? Maybe only grandma Hao knows it. Both of them cannot be separated from each other." "We are all too small in the face of life and death."
The promise of the night before the marriage was to use one son to realize thatWhat is love? Maybe love has many forms, and some things cannot be expressed in words, but they are constructed in life with a little bit.
A retired entrepreneur wrote an article on "Medical Platform". His wife has gradually become demented, but he still accompanied his wife to play, play games, and write poems together. Even when his wife calls, he will call her to her sisters to let them chat with her and increase the fun in life.
Next year we will celebrate the 68th anniversary of our marriage. I took out the letter I wrote to my wife the day before the marriage and gave it to my wife to listen to. I spent my whole life realizing my promise to my wife. Looking back, my family broke down and lost their jobs after I was discharged from the army. I remembered that when my wife was holding the child, there was a child in her belly, and she also had to make clothes to help her family plan. Many people look down on her, and I am very grateful that she has not yet retreated, so we can persevere until today.
Even if I forget everything, I will not forget you!When neurologic physician Yang Jingbai was interviewed by a joint report, he once mentioned a case.
The eighty-five-year-old Wang Wei was retired from the army as a colonel. He married his 69-year-old wife for more than 50 years and had a very deep relationship. But the two of them suffered from dementia first and the family was busy with work during the day, so they arranged for their elders to go to the care center of Guangtian Hospital to receive care and rehabilitation during the day, and to pick them up at night.
What is amazing is that although the disease has taken away their health and memory, they have not left their deep husband-wife relationship for decades. The two have forgotten everything, but they still think of each other's faces and look for each other's figure at any time.
When walking outside, the couple always starts to do it. As long as they don’t see their spouse, they will chase others and ask, “Where is grandma?” The medical staff will immediately bring grandma to Yu. If they don’t see their spouse for more than a minute, Yu will be anxious.
As Grandma Wang became ill, she had to live in the center for all-weather care. During the day, she and grandma were like cowherds and brides gathered on the Chinese Valentine's Day. In the evening, they had to be separated. She kept asking: "Where is grandma? I have to take her home with her." The medical staff had to be patient and calm.
The serious dementia grandma looks very happy every day, and she likes to wear red clothes and tells people around her: "I'm about to get married." The caregiver asked who grandma wants to marry? She would clearly say Wang's name. It turned out that her memory returned to her girlish age and stayed forever in the happy time when she was about to marry her.
Li Yu, a professor at Taipei University of Care and Health, once told everyone that "when you are old, you have to be romantic!" She said that the important element in building love is passion. The passion at a young age often comes from appearance and sexual attraction. These conditions will fade away at any time, but people of any age may want to have a good mood of love. Therefore, even as they get older, they can still maintain a good physical and mental state for the other party, pay attention to their image, etc., so that they can exude different charms at different stages of their lives.
Li Yuma reminded that no matter how harmonious accompanies are, they need to be reconciled. Remember, "Marriage is a place for love, not a place for reason. In the face of conflicts, if only one party wins the whole thing, the relationship between two people will be lost." Therefore, Li Yuma sorted out the "Five Things to Do for Old Husband and Wife to Help Love" to deepen the love of the elderly..
Five things to help old couples maintain love:1. Remember the promises to each other
2. Create passion and arrange the little surprises in life
3. Create interactions, find things that are common interest
4. Learn the independence and give each other a free and independent space
5. Resolve conflicts and create double rewards as the principle